The little kid is all grown up, and the box doesn't fit anymore. Let the kid come out and destroy the box. When the kid came out of the box, she was full of bad thoughts in her mind because of that box. So, Tell the kid that she has and will continue to grow. Tell the kid that she can choose what she wants to believe, she can be whatever she wants to be, she can do anything that excites her. Tell the kid that she was not born to please other people, not to make other people happy, not to be a 'good-hearted' person to anyone, not a servant to any person but herself. Tell the kid that it's okay if she doesn't want to share what she has with others, it's okay to ignore other people, it's okay to be everything and anything she wants to be. And tell the kid that she is free from any fears, wounds, thoughts, attachment, limited beliefs, people, and expectations.